Wednesday 17 April 2013

‘The Journey Not the Destination’


          The land of an unforgettable past, a promising future, the skies are like a palate of distinctive colors. The sun has been witness to gallant wars and phenomenal passion, from the fall of an empire and the rise of a colony from a land of tradition and culture to a land of modernization, from being its own master to being a slave. The old trees that carry the roots of its enduring culture, each day, remind the people of who they are. The awe-inspiring Gomti River reflects the renaissance of every field ranging from food to poetry, from art and architecture to politics and music. This is the land of ‘Nawabs’, the city that rose from the ashes to unfold its wings and soar. This city is Lucknow.
         In my first year, I always wondered what it would be like discovering a place, rather a unique aspect of that place. It sounded so electrifying and I just couldn’t wait to encounter what my seniors had experienced. They had such enthralling stories to tell, which motivated me even further. Soon I was in my second year, and it was my turn now to have one of the few life changing experiences. My whole batch was on their toes deciding where to go and what it would be like. Every conversation that we had earlier was something to do with other people or our subjects but now the only conversations we had was about Discover India Project.
      No sooner did the time come when we had to submit our chosen place, ours was Lucknow. I had never been to Lucknow; in fact no one from my group had been to Lucknow so we were all looking forward to our journey. Various questions found their way into my head, is this the place I really want to visit, what if the place doesn’t turn out to be any different than I thought it would be, but then again one has to think positively. Immense amount of work began. Pre-field research was a must. Hours turned into days and days into months. Finally the countdown had begun. Researching about Lucknow was a real delight. Most of the books or articles I read about Lucknow, spoke essentially of the ‘courtly manners’, the food, the music and the embroidery.
    The big day had arrived. This time around, it was my turn to tell my juniors, alluring stories about Lucknow.  There was just one thing that was bothering me, travelling by train. It was an experience I vaguely remember. However, this train journey is something I will never forget; it was so picturesque, the green fields, the brown hills, the tiny village huts, the cattle scattered grazing in the fields. I just couldn’t wait to get to Lucknow. Every station we stopped at, the wait grew unbearable. This experience was going to be inimitable; I had never travelled so far with friends. I’ve travelled to quite a few cities with one motive, ‘to holiday’. This time again there was one motive, not to holiday, but to achieve what we came looking for, something that no city had, but Lucknow. This instance, I had to look at Lucknow not only through my eyes but more over through the eyes of the Lucknowiites.
   The journey was long yet worthwhile. We had arrived in Lucknow. As we got off the station we hurried into the auto to head to our hotel which was situated in New Lucknow. As we travelled from the station to New Lucknow, there was a huge transformation. The narrow streets had become wider; the old, dilapidated houses turned into buildings, the tiny shops had turned into huge malls, the old had become the new!
   The people were so hospitable and courteous. Whenever we lost our way, the auto driver would get down and ask people for directions and if we got down to look for directions they’d say don’t worry, please sit, I’ll look for the directions. There was this one incident that I clearly remember when we were four people standing on the road looking for an auto. Two autos stopped, both, already hired. One auto had four passengers and the other was carrying one passenger. The man from the auto got off and sat in the other auto with four people so that the four of us could sit together in one auto. This incident just took me by surprise. Never in my nineteen years had I seen anyone do that in Mumbai. When we told the people about our project, they were more than willing to help us. They’d give us some suggestions of people and places we could go to visit. When we interviewed some people they’d patiently sit and answer all our questions. It was just so overwhelming.
   Lucknow is known for its mouth watering kebabs, being a vegetarian there was not a lot of places I could go visit. But the sweets and the ‘chaats’ were so appetizing, especially the ‘paani puri.’
  The ‘Chikan’ and ‘Ari-Zardozi’ embroidery was so opulent. On one side you have the Chikan Kari work which was so simple yet stylish and on the other, you have the Ari-Zardozi embroidery which is so grand yet elegant. The embellished clothes were so beautiful, they spoke to me. They whispered, ‘pick me.’ Every street I went to had plenty of shops selling these well-stitched clothes. Studying about how these clothes were actually made was so intriguing. I had the benefit to speak to several craftsmen. Each of their work was so inspiring and fine.
   The architecture was magnificent. I was awe-stricken looking at the monuments. The strategy and the design that the architect had thought of was just surreal. It was really heart breaking to know that most of these monuments that were built with such grandeur were actually looted by the British. Even after losing its wealth, the monuments never lost its pride.
   There was something about these Lucknowiites. Their unity was unmatchable. You can’t tell a Hindu from a Muslim. There was so much peace and harmony, the aura you get from the place is so chaste. Their language was sweeter than any other I had heard. It was so respectful and soft that one automatically tends to reciprocate in that manner.  When you ask the people the reason behind their tolerance towards a Hindu or towards a Muslim, they just reply, ‘it runs in our DNA,’ they were never taught to be tolerant, they just knew.
   The Nawabs weren’t even Indian; they were descendants of the Persian race. Not only did they understand and learn the Indian culture but also imparted their ethnicity to their subjects. Hence, Lucknow was an amalgamation of both these cultures, thus giving rise to this idiosyncratic element that no other city had seen or possessed. This city stands as proof to the test of times. Never has it had communal riots. The Hindus observe Mohram here and the Muslims celebrate Holi. Muslims have built temples while Hindus have constructed mosques. While the Muslims here are mostly craftsmen, the Hindus are sellers. It is astounding to see this culture yet, which has been passed on years after years.  This city just shows how rich India was as a country not only monetarily but also culturally. This city brought me closer to India than I ever was. This city may not have the best of malls, or the best of hotels or the best of buildings but this city certainly has the best of people. Lucknow doesn’t need any of these things because they have what no other city has, the unity, the kindness and the much refined culture.  
    In conclusion, I’d like to quote Greg Anderson, “Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it.”  To me D.I.P was not just another credit course but it was an experience that is imprinted in my mind, it certainly was life-changing. I don’t think any book can teach you what this experience teaches you. It’s something that you don’t write or talk about because you cannot express it, it’s something you feel.

Sanika Shah
FSLE-3

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